I think both Stef and i would certainly agree. We’re not talking about undoing things, but of changing directions when further experience indicates unwisdom or error. Not arbitrary, not frivolous, not walking away —- And I know I’m not talking necessarily about big things like divorce would be, things like that. I was posting about unfreedom even in small things!
I was intending black/white thinking (Stef picked up on that right away, so I can be clearer now) — but about recognizing shades of gray. Fear of change versus necessities and benefits of change. It’s a balancing act, as I suspect almost all of life is a balancing act.
Of course this is a complicated issue, and would take essays really to get into fully!
Meanwhile, fly well, come home safe, welcome back, Namaste!!!!!