I LOVE your spirit Judy, and Frank’s even more – (and I would hardly call you a pessimist – the closest would be a realist, and with his secret yearnings being out, [bionic man :)], one of you’ve got to be that, so you’re forgiven :)…
But Therese’s words ring so true – and I have the memories of our weekend trips to Yaphank all those years ago as testimony – who but the most generous of couples would allow a “kabab mein haddi”, as they say in India – a third wheel, a fly-in-the-ointment – to crowd out their precious weekends week after week?? They were such cherished memories that I still find myself looking for ways to recreate those times – other weekend treks, other weekend prayer groups, other Taize groups.. soemthing always seems to be missing… and Therese’s words remind me what that is!
And the pics look great! Frank’s signature smile and poise are all intact!!
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